I was thinking like you, "who does it hurt?" but reading SF's comment and also this article http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=91486191, I'm leaning more and more towards being against it.

I think "slows fades" are the most dangerous -regarding anything. Like the frog in warm water that doesn't realize it's getting hotter until it's too late.

My 2 cents, I know it probably won't change your mind

There is just one thing you have wrong.

"No one is going to teach your kids about same s..x marriage in school!" What about the first grade class that was taken on a field trip to their lesbian teachers wedding? Or the book of little children called "The King And The King", or whatever it is called, that is being read to kindergardeners without their parents knowledge, even going so far as to refuse to let parents know when it will be read so that they can opt to remove their children during it. Or the kindergarden class that was given homos..xual pledge cards to sign, stating that the child, who knows nothing about s..xuality, will show kindness to gay and will stand up for them. I don't know how much of this happened in California, I know some of it did, but it is happening.

I just thought that you should know that.

Spiritsfire

i agree. god can't hate people who love. it's just not possible.

and you're right, gay people don't have to get married in a church. it's NOT a matter of church and state, and it bewilders me when people use that as the excuse to ban gay marriage.

I didn't think it was right that people are happy it passed and i didn't like seeing people standing on the street with sings that say yes on 8 it made me mad I'm  not going to lie.. but i realized that if they let gay people get married then the priest have to marry you and its kinda wrong to make them do something they don't really believe in but it is sad they can pass that but not the hole abortion thing were you have to tell your mom and dad if your going to have a abortion it stupid!!!

sorry about the financial stuff; i know how you feel..

you look awesome! i gained a lot of weight too this year, and now i'm trying to work it off, but it's hard.

sorry to hear that :(

it's good to hear from you tho :)

Oh the hair wars sounds like a fun challenge. 

Hope everything works out with the car.   I reallly hate having to take my car in for service.   Ofcourse I usually only get to do this after the roomate and neighbors have spent the day walking around it with the hood up and drinking a case of beer...

that's such an awesome picture!!!!

sorry he passed away :(  at least he led a long life, that's one positive.

you sound like me with the nighttime anxiety. i used to get anxiety attacks EVERY night, no matter what i did. i've learned to fight them off at the first sign of one through therapy and my own determination not to have them, but they suck sooooooooooooo bad when i can't thwart them. you're right, it's probably because you have so much time to sit there and think.

by the way, i love your hair color :)

you don't have to tell me, and maybe i should already know this, but where do you live?

i agree with you. i don't want to cheat on her. she deserves the best. i'm going to try my hardest not to.

i actually haven't had the cancer test yet. they said i have to go back 9/25. i really don't want to wait that long, but i have to i guess.

Well I don't think there is much to talk about. I mean, if in 4 years he haven't proposed...isn't that more than a hint?

He avoids the subject because he knows he will have to either lie to you or end the relationship when you realize that there is no "future" to it (as in wedding rings).

Well, I dont know what's right to tell you. But you could try asking him why he dont like talking about it. and work off from there. But in the mean time just enjoy the time you have with him and cherish it. These days not many couples last long. Good Luck.

<3 Shelb's

Congradulations!!!

What kind of dogs are they? I can't see the pictures.

Yes I lived in Oregon my entire life except for the past year!
I was born and grew up in the Eugene/Springfield Area...
I've lived in the following cities:

• Eugene
• Springfield
• Cottage Grove
• Pleasant Hill [Dexter]
• Grants Pass
• Merlin
• Hugo
• Winston
• Corvallis
• Monroe
• and now my mother lives in Canby.

Have fun with all of that!
: ]
&&....What the hell is a trail run??

Sounds like you had tons of fun! : ]  I like girls too. But I think being bi is just like being gay or straight. Cheating is cheating. Page says that too. He gets mad even if I just think about kissing another girl. Haha. And threesomes for other people doesn't bother me, but I couldn't do stuff like that. I don't know why. Hmmm. Weird. I'm glad you had fun though! MUAH!

-Dani-
AKA
Hannah.

I love your confidence.

damn.I've heard of that, but didnt know so many people had it...at least youre not alone

keep your head up

well u seem lyk a really nice person.=]]

and we have a couple of things in common too

thats really impressive that u had ur art work in show cases. u must be very talented.

JTHM rocks my socks lol and im sorry your tattoo is crappily made

lol if i did tattoos i would go out of business for i have the drawing skills of a 7 year old XD

you're so lucky to get the training i would love to have that!

*Rosie*